Growing up can be so strange,
but some things will never change.
I'll be reaching my 20s next week.
jus my two cents worth of thoughts in our growing up process :)

Life is not an oyster.
Sometimes it turns out to be si hum.
even good oyster may spoil too.
Look back when u were a kid..
thinks were perfect,
people were simple.
u'll think m&m is better then money because u can eat.

We are living in a society where every man is fighting for himself..
false images.
its a dog-eat-dog world,
'Survival of the fittest'
the real world is like a jungle.
sometimes if u dun kill people,
people kill u.
Working world's frens are not true frens.
its only your school mates that are more of a true fren.
People wears a mask to protect themselves,
to please others, to avoid hurting others.
But this doesnt mean we cant create trustworthy relationship with people.
Its human's nature to err.
humans are not perfect.
even the closet of friends will hurt you with their words n actions sometimes.
i may sound abit too harse,
but its reality check.
u may not even know when people backstab u.
and sometimes u find out in the hard way.

Welcome to the rel world,
where the only person u can trust is SOMETIMES urself.
Family members,
ur significant partner,
ur best of friends.
this are impt figure to help us grow up,
and give us joy in our daily lives.
but betrayal among them may cause a stir in the relationships
and affect ur thinking.

If 5 or 10 of ur ex gf/bf had betrayed u in the past,
how much courage u need to completely trust a new one?
its fear we are talking..
the skeptic of people nice to you.
being suspicious and being skeptical is different.
one gives u the fear of being hurt,
another gives u false pretenses.

Trust is the hardest form of achievement between humans.

(not directing at any people)